Nurse Rule #1: Don’t Bring Something Lame to the Potluck

by | Jan 8, 2026 | New Grad Nurse, Vitals + Vibes | 0 comments

Vitals & Vibes

Welcome to Vitals & Vibes—a series created just for new nurses navigating the real world of patient care – written by Kati Kleber, MSN RN. These quick reads are packed with practical tips, mindset shifts, and bedside wisdom to help you build confidence, one shift at a time. Whether you’re fresh off orientation or just trying to find your rhythm, this is your space to breathe, learn, and grow.

Let’s talk about the stuff no one tells you in nursing school: the unwritten rules of the job. You won’t find these in a textbook or policy manual, but you’ll learn them fast once you’re on the floor.

Some of these rules keep the unit running smoothly… and some just keep the peace (and keep you from being side-eyed at the next holiday potluck).

Here’s my non-exhaustive list of unofficial nursing rules:

🍲 1. Don’t bring something lame to the potluck

You know what I mean. No single bag of chips still in the grocery sack. Potlucks are sacred in nurse culture so bring something you’d actually want to eat after a 12-hour shift. Bonus points if it has cheese or chocolate.

💧 2. Don’t let your drips run dry for the next shift

Before clocking out, make sure patients have enough fluids to last awhile, especially in the ICU or for those who could crash if their drips run dry. Keep an eye on those pumps before you clock out.

🆘 3. If you’re caught up, check on others before taking a break

We all have those shifts where the stars align and you’re miraculously caught up. If that happens, see if someone else is drowning before you head to the break room. I’m sure you would want someone to do that for you!

🫣 4. Messy job? Handle the business end

Need help cleaning up something particularly unpleasant? You take the end that… well… requires the most bravery. (I think you get the picture here.)

🚶‍♀️ 5. Don’t disappear from the unit without telling anyone

We’ve all had that “Where’s so-and-so?!” moment. Even if you’re just running to the bathroom or grabbing supplies, let someone know!

📱 6. Don’t constantly kick it at the nurse’s station on your phone

It’s just not a great look. Constantly scrolling at the desk while others are running around is a quick way to earn the wrong kind of reputation.

💬 Want more of these?

If you want to hear me and a few other experienced nurses share even more of these unspoken rules (and laugh through some stories), check out the FreshRN Podcast episode: The Unwritten Rules of Nursing.

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